Reuben Abati, the respected journalist, broadcaster, and former presidential spokesperson, has once again captured public admiration after penning a deeply emotional and poetic tribute to his beloved wife, Kikelomo, in celebration of her 46th birthday.
Abati, who rarely shares intimate family moments publicly, poured his heart out as he described his wife as not only his “sunrise,” but also his “sun,” emphasizing how she illuminates his life in ways words can barely express. He celebrated her as his dependable anchor through every storm, his constant source of inspiration, and the quiet force behind his continued brilliance and resilience.
He admired her composure, grace, intelligence, and unwavering determination, noting that her strength does not shout — it shines. According to him, her beauty is far deeper than physical appearance; it radiates from her discipline, humility, and genuine character. Her presence, he said, fuels his creativity and spirit, helping him remain grounded regardless of life’s pressures.
In his reflection, Abati proudly noted that his wife is among the rare few who challenge him intellectually and emotionally. He highlighted how she pushes him to aspire, improve, and evolve daily, making him not just a better man, but a better human being.
A message on wisdom, love, and partnership
He took a moment to share one of the most profound pieces of marital wisdom he ever received from his godfather, Prince Adelusi: “A happy man marries the girl he loves, but the happier man loves the woman he marries.” This advice, according to Abati, has been a compass throughout his journey in marriage, teaching him that true companionship is about continuous choice, patience, and intentional love.
He reflected deeply on the essence of marriage — not as a perfect union, but as a beautiful journey where two people grow, evolve, and rediscover each other through every season of life. To him, the secret lies in mutual respect, communication, and choosing love every single day.
The heart of lasting happiness
Abati rounded off his touching message with a powerful reflection on the true meaning of happiness. He asserted that real joy does not lie in wealth, power, or material possessions, but in companionship, understanding, and a home filled with warmth and gratitude.
He described Kikelomo as his “sun,” the warm light at the center of his world, and promised to cherish, honor, and love her endlessly. He reaffirmed that she remains his greatest blessing, his calm in chaos, and his brightest source of happiness and peace.
He concluded with a reminder that “True happiness doesn’t sit on the shelf; it comes from within,” reinforcing that love, shared purpose, and emotional connection are the true treasures of life.