Nigerian award-winning singer and songwriter, Yemi Alade, has spoken candidly about the emotional battles that come with fame, revealing that despite her success, the entertainment world can feel deeply isolating.
During an intimate conversation with media personality Chude Jideonwo, the “Johnny” hitmaker shared that many stars deal with loneliness behind the scenes, even while constantly being in the public eye.
“This industry is already a lonely place. I’m not about to live my actual life lonely,” she expressed, making it clear that she is determined to prioritize her well-being and refuse isolation in her personal life.
She also hinted at the emotional sacrifices she has had to make over the years, emphasizing that peace sometimes comes at the cost of creating distance from certain environments and people. According to her, choosing her mental health over chaos is a decision she stands firmly by.
Fans applaud her honesty
Her heartfelt revelation quickly resonated with fans online, who praised her bravery for addressing loneliness and mental health in the entertainment space—topics often overlooked in the Nigerian music industry.
Supporters flooded the comments section with messages of compassion, acknowledging her vulnerability. One fan wrote, “You can see the emotion in her eyes. Many people go through this but don’t talk about it. God bless her for speaking up.”
Others highlighted that fame does not erase human emotion, with many creatives silently struggling despite their public success.
On female collaboration and industry peace
In the same interview, Yemi was asked about possible collaborations with fellow female stars like Tiwa Savage. Her thoughtful silence and careful replies suggested she prefers maintaining peace and avoiding unnecessary conflict.
[/p]Her stance reignited debate online about unity among female Nigerian artists, with some fans urging collaboration and others respecting her desire to avoid drama.
Yemi also reflected on her early struggles, recalling how she performed at more than 300 free shows before breaking into the spotlight—proof of her resilience and dedication to her craft.
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“This industry is already a lonely place. I’m not about to live my actual life lonely.”
– Yemi Alade pic.twitter.com/BTNzro1aT3
— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) November 1, 2025