A Nigerian man has stirred massive debate online after sharing controversial reasons why he believes men should avoid dating Nigerian girls living in the United Kingdom (UK). His opinion has sparked mixed reactions across social media platforms.
The man, identified as Alvin Bil on TikTok, claimed that getting into a relationship with Nigerian ladies based in the UK can negatively affect a man’s finances and peace of mind.
Man explains why he avoids dating Nigerian ladies in the UK
According to Alvin Bil, choosing not to date Nigerian girls in the United Kingdom is one of the best decisions a man can make if he wants to remain financially stable and mentally balanced.
In his viral TikTok video, he described Nigerian women living abroad as demanding, difficult to satisfy, and often inconsiderate when it comes to financial responsibilities.
He went further to allege that many Nigerian ladies in the UK expect men to take on financial obligations that should be shared, claiming they often “transfer family burdens” to their partners.
Alvin Bil also stated that most of them fail to appreciate their partner’s efforts, no matter how much the man provides or supports them.
The caption on his video reads, “If you really want to be financially stable in the UK, try to avoid dating Nigerian girls living in the UK. Dem go even thief & achieve your polo dem”, implying they are capable of draining men financially and emotionally.
Online reactions trail his statement
The post quickly attracted massive engagement and sparked a heated debate, as many Nigerians at home and abroad shared their opinions.
@forty_flourishing remarked, “Some of us actually spend and shelter you lots and we don’t come here to make noise 👌”.
@Oluwaseun Promise wrote, “Brotherly I just tire. No one is saying we can’t spend on them but seeing it as entitlement is my problem”.
@Cacee 💕 commented, “I actually feel sorry for you guys no joke. In the UK should they not be working & getting their own money? Then they call oyibo pick me if we treat our men.”
@CHRISTIAN added, “My Jamaican boss wey I dey work date Nigeria girl, him come dey complain to me, omo d girl bill am😂😂😂 I laugh am”.
The viral video has ignited gender debates online, with some supporting his viewpoint while others labelled his comments as exaggerated and unfair.
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